Dating a guy thats always busy

When I actually want to see someone, when he offers to hang out with me on a day I've already gotten plans in place, I rearrange my day to make time for him. My response is something along the lines of, "I'm supposed to do x and y, but if you want to do z in between, that'll work great for me." Or, I'll budget him into my time for the next day.

However, should the opportunity arise for me to spend time with someone who doesn't quite fit into my routine, I have one of two options: I can either shuffle my schedule around to accommodate him, or I cannot. When someone tells you he or she is too busy, what that person is really saying is what he or she is used to doing with his or her time takes precedence over the opportunity to see you. Because I can't point the finger at everyone else and walk away clean; I, too, have used the excuse that I am "too busy."But, that's just what it is: an excuse.

=(When we're together he talks about spending the rest of his life with me.

He's already talked about marrying me, having kids and a future together.

Realize this person is not selecting you as a priority.

And maybe, next time, he or she wants to see you, you'll be too busy.

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